At the beginning of the week I had a wonderful time watching Anthony Robbins tape his new show. Now I can’t give any details about the show, because that would kill the surprise. Nobody wants to hear how the story ends before they even get the book started. So I am not going to cheat you or Tony by saying anything more about the show.
However, I will share an exercise Tony did with the audience, because that will not be on the program. It was a great experience because it took a memory of mine that had kept me double minded (conflicted and full of self doubt) all my life and the experience turned it around to become a confirmation of who I am as Mr. Marriage.
I love helping couples in conflict. The more troubled the marriage the better. I even like couples who are emotionally dead inside and feel more like roommates. Because I love seeing it all turn around and watch two people fall back in love. I have developed an alternative to traditonal marriage counseling that will help couples feel love again. We have had amazing success in healing broken marriages with this. But with every turn around, with every success, the same doubt comes back, “What if I cannot help the next couple?” Tony’s exercise was such a gift because it addressed those doubts right to their core.
The exercise was an adaptation of a NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) perspective exercise where you look at a memory from your point of view, a second person’s point of view and then a third or higher point of view (God’s). I have used it with couples and called it “Easy as 1,2,3”, because it easily creates such powerful change by taking on another perspective.
I shared all the details in the video clip. Check it out.
Always Practice Love,
Brett Williams, M.F.T.
Mr. Marriage
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In looking around your site, the most impressive thing to me was this clip about your own earliest memory. Your honest sharing was be very impressive. It’s a good looking site, too.
Your passion or your calling is evident in this video clip. I know that your innovative ideas will help many people with their relationships…no one else is defining love the way you do. It is all so simple, but so clear and honest. Thank you!
Great video clip. I loved how it came from the heart. Sounded like a powerful experience.