Comments on: Lovelessness- Can One Person Save a Marriage http://www.helptalking.com/lovelessness Coaching Couples Through Conflict Thu, 11 Aug 2011 19:02:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Jill http://www.helptalking.com/lovelessness/comment-page-1#comment-1279 Jill Fri, 24 Sep 2010 04:00:45 +0000 http://www.helptalking.com/?p=1565#comment-1279 Hi, I have been married going on 30 yrs next year and been seperated from my husband for 2.5 yrs.It is thru his insistance and a controlling family member of his and the sake of a roof over his head as well.He has not asked or filled for a legal seperation or divorce and I am not going to just hand it to him,although everyone I know says..."don't you think it's about time ?"....NO I DO NOT !!! When we married and we did three times!!!!,I know we both meant it for life! He has and continues to do me wrong especially by putting a R>O> in place just to keep me from contacting him for three years!!! I have nearly lost my mind and continue to struggle with the real death grief of this all to the point of I have questioned my sanity at times.I have become so complusive in wanting him still in my life that it literally has gotten me in trouble and the RO isn't even a year old till the end of the year! Also I have felt I have never been told the complete or utter truth of his staying away either other then his sister hates me and him together.Also I feel he just may have gotten himself into a child jam,but at 54 yrs old,who would do that,not delibertly at least.Maybe his sister feels being a neighborhood watch capt for her block gives her so much authority to run others lives and he rides with it.There is so much more to my story I do not want to put out there but will tell you we have one daughter 26 yrs old and married with our only two grandbabies ages 2 and 5 and he has put a wege down the middle of that as well.He has taken all from me and nearly my life too! Please keep God in this situation,those of you who may read this and are christians...please. thank you and God bless PS" If any screenwriters are out there and would like a story,I definetly have one for you.Plz contact me at the above address.Im serious! Hi,
I have been married going on 30 yrs next year and been seperated from my husband for 2.5 yrs.It is thru his insistance and a controlling family member of his and the sake of a roof over his head as well.He has not asked or filled for a legal seperation or divorce and I am not going to just hand it to him,although everyone I know says…”don’t you think it’s about time ?”….NO I DO NOT !!! When we married and we did three times!!!!,I know we both meant it for life! He has and continues to do me wrong especially by putting a R>O> in place just to keep me from contacting him for three years!!! I have nearly lost my mind and continue to struggle with the real death grief of this all to the point of I have questioned my sanity at times.I have become so complusive in wanting him still in my life that it literally has gotten me in trouble and the RO isn’t even a year old till the end of the year! Also I have felt I have never been told the complete or utter truth of his staying away either other then his sister hates me and him together.Also I feel he just may have gotten himself into a child jam,but at 54 yrs old,who would do that,not delibertly at least.Maybe his sister feels being a neighborhood watch capt for her block gives her so much authority to run others lives and he rides with it.There is so much more to my story I do not want to put out there but will tell you we have one daughter 26 yrs old and married with our only two grandbabies ages 2 and 5 and he has put a wege down the middle of that as well.He has taken all from me and nearly my life too! Please keep God in this situation,those of you who may read this and are christians…please.
thank you and God bless

PS” If any screenwriters are out there and would like a story,I definetly have one for you.Plz contact me at the above address.Im serious!

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