My first thought was “why?” Here is a man who has everything. Why is he banging his office staff? Then I thought about the boss that’s having sex with his secretary. Or the salesman who is having sex with customers. David Letterman’s indescretion is no different than many other work place affairs. Work place affairs are the most common type of infidelity.
But the questions still needs to be asked “why?”. Why is it so common that we can make jokes about the traveling salesman and the farmer’s daughter. Is that just the way things are and men just cheat on their wives?
NO! People cheat because of particular situations being in place. If a couple is aware of what causes affairs then they can take steps to affair proof their marriage. The article in Hitched shares about the psychology of infidelity. Starting with the understanding of love, you can learn how to affair proof your relationship. Go to hitched mag.com and read Brett Williams‘ article about infidelity.
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I am all about affair proofing marriages as well! Thanks for posting!
And while I agree with many of Mr. Brett’s points on infidelity, I have come to a different conclusion for why men cheat. To see if you agree or disagree, visit: http://relationship-journal.com/2009/08/12/why-men-cheat/