[This seminar will be done live as well as on the internet. It will be interactive with lots of audience participation. The cost will be $25 per couple.]

Have you found yourself saying the same thing over and over, or having your spouse repeat themselves again and again?  This happens when you or your spouse is not feeling heard.

During this short 90 minute class, couples will be introduced to a powerful healing tool called “hearing”.  Most of us are lucky if we can get our partner to even listen, but hearing is very different.  Listening can be demonstrated by having your partner paraphrase back what was said.  Hearing, however, requires a much deeper understanding of what was being expressed. Hearing is the ability to express back the other person’s pain or frustration more deeply than was initially communicated.  It is what therapists do to help heal their clients.  When someone shows such clear understanding, that the two of you can together find the deeper meaning behind an experience, then healing occurs.

Our wounds are formed because we feel a break in our relationship. Your partner did something, or did not do something, or said something or did not say something, and for that moment you felt disconnected.  If you did not feel disconnected you would not have been upset with what was done.

When that wound is shared and someone is connected to you while you’re sharing it, healing occurs.  It does not matter if it is the person who hurt you, or a friend, or even a stranger like a therapist.  When someone can join you in your pain or frustration, you will experience healing.

This will be “guy friendly”. Let me reassure the men being asked to participate: guys love this stuff.  Once they are here and learning what to do, it becomes simple.  Most men come reluctantly, if not down right resistant, but leave pleased with the results.  Its true guy don’t typically like dealing with feelings.  That’s because men don’t feel competent dealing with emotions.  However, once a man learns the easy 1-2-3 steps in this process, they are much better listeners and expresses then are the ladies.

Register below. You will be contacted once your information has been set to pay for this event.

Mastering the Mysteries of Love

Taught by Brett R. Williams, “Mr. Marriage”  Replace questions with answers. Exchange anxieties for hope. Turn isolation into intimacy. Gain a mastery of love. Mastering the Mysteries of Love (MML) is an interactive, hands-on program that teaches ten essential relationship skills that work together to change how people listen, talk, solve problems, and relate to one another. Perfect for couples at all stages of relationship.

Kids, kids, kids; they can take a lot out of us, but what suffers the most is our relationship.  Here is an idea that can bring back some of the love and closeness you both want.

Come to our next Mastering the Mysteries of Love (MML) class and learn the skills every relationship needs to stay healthy. It is taught by a guy, so it will be completely guy friendly.

OC Marriage is putting on a New MML class Saturday October 3rd, 8:30 AM to 5:30 PM and will have 4 Tuesday night follow up classes for those who want it.  It is only $25 per person for a very full 16 hours of skill instruction and personalized relationship training.

You will learn:

Expression Skills- How to talk so your spouse will listen

Understanding Skills- How to respond so your feels heard (& doesn’t have to repeat themselves again)

Discussion Skills- How to put the first two skills together

Coaching Skills- How to keep the conversation on track

Conflict Management- How to deal with the intense emotions that can come up

Problem Solving- How to get what you want

Self-Change- How to better yourself

Helping Others Change- How to help better your partner

Generalization- How to do all this cool stuff with everyone

Maintenance- How to keep these skills alive

Guys don’t worry, I got your back, it will be fun, high energy, and a productive use of your time.  Please sign up ASAP, space fills up very quickly. Go to OCMarriage.com and RSVP today.

Thursday MOPs at Mariners Church Irvine

5001 Newport Coast Dr
Irvine, CA 92603
(949) 854-7600

In this workshop Brett will be talking about Balanced Love.  ‘Balanced Love’ is built around the law of love which states we need to love others (our neighbor) as we love ourselves.  Most relationships I see are out of balance with one person (the man) doing great at loving himself, but not understanding or knowing how to love others (his wife).  And wives are typically great at loving others (the kids, friends, spouse) but don’t spend much time or don’t know how to love themselves.  The talk centers around providing practical and useable ideas of how to bring our love back into balance.

Friday Mops at Mariners Church in Irvine

5001 Newport Coast Dr
Irvine, CA 92603
(949) 854-7600

In this workshop Brett will be talking about Balanced Love.  ‘Balanced Love’ is built around the law of love which states we need to love others (our neighbor) as we love ourselves.  Most relationships I see are out of balance with one person (the man) doing great at loving himself, but not understanding or knowing how to love others (his wife).  And wives are typically great at loving others (the kids, friends, spouse) but don’t spend much time or don’t know how to love themselves.  The talk centers around providing practical and useable ideas of how to bring our love back into balance.

MOMS group at Bethany Church in Long Beach. 2250 Clark Avenue Long Beach CA. 90815 562-597-2411
Our class will be in the gym at Bethany Church on Thursday mornings from 9:30am until 11:15am.

In this workshop Brett will be talking about Balanced Love.  ‘Balanced Love’ is built around the law of love which states we need to love others (our neighbor) as we love ourselves.  Most relationships I see are out of balance with one person (the man) doing great at loving himself, but not understanding or knowing how to love others (his wife).  And wives are typically great at loving others (the kids, friends, spouse) but don’t spend much time or don’t know how to love themselves.  The talk centers around providing practical and useable ideas of how to bring our love back into balance.

Thursday MOPs at Mariners Church Irvine

5001 Newport Coast Dr
Irvine, CA 92603
(949) 854-7600

In this workshop Brett will be talking about Balanced Love.  ‘Balanced Love’ is built around the law of love which states we need to love others (our neighbor) as we love ourselves.  Most relationships I see are out of balance with one person (the man) doing great at loving himself, but not understanding or knowing how to love others (his wife).  And wives are typically great at loving others (the kids, friends, spouse) but don’t spend much time or don’t know how to love themselves.  The talk centers around providing practical and useable ideas of how to bring our love back into balance.

Mom’s Together at Seacoast Grace Church

5100 Cerritos Avenue
Cypress, CA 90630

We meet in the Ranch House which is the building on the right as you turn off of Cerritos Avenue.

We meet at 9 am for breakfast and would love to have you join us.

‘Balanced Love’ is built around the law of love which states we need to love others (our neighbor) as we love ourselves.  Most relationships I see are out of balance with one person (the man) doing great at loving himself, but not understanding or knowing how to love others (his wife).  And wives are typically great at loving others (the kids, friends, spouse) but don’t spend much time or don’t know how to love themselves.  The talk centers around providing practical and useable ideas of how to bring our love back into balance.

Corpus Christi Catholic church in Aliso Viejo

Are you ready to hear some real answers about love and relationships? Then you are going to want to tune into Bonnie Graham’s show when she interviews Brett Williams, Mr. Marriage.

All you will need to do is to get on BlogTalkRadio.com at 4:30 pacific time and you will hear Bonnie’s evening show in New York.

Every Tuesady afternoon from 1 to 2 you can hear Brett Williams on My Expert Solution Radio.  Each week Brett speaks to an expert in the area of human psychology, relationships, or motivation/inspiration.  The show is always entertaining as well as informative. Make sure you tune in.